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Another Would Have Been Anniversary

 Today is August 3, 2023... for whatever reason this date, August 3, is hard for me. Why? Today would have been our 39th wedding anniversary if there had been no divorce. Someone I know posted something on Facebook several weeks ago on her "would have been" anniversary and I loved what she said. It struck a chord with me and I thought a long time about what she said, and I realized, "You know what? She's right." So I am going to share what she said here changing the date of course and a few other things too. It helped me and maybe it will help someone else who finds anniversary dates sometimes difficult.  "This post may seem odd, but I want to acknowledge a day that meant a great deal to me for a long time." Today would have been my 39th wedding anniversary. This is a hard day in a lot of ways. Divorce is oftentimes looked upon as something you don't openly grieve, but loss is loss. The couple who walked down a church aisle on August, 3rd, at 7:00,